Self-control and act in accordance with a voluntary discipline is an act should be adjusted right from a young age. When incomplete personality, babies often become easy impulsive, lost control when any circumstance occur and leave many negative consequences. A child needs the support of the family to cultivate and exercise self-control to live harmoniously with everyone around. This article is a useful way to help you in the process of early childhood education. By self-control was psychological, children themselves can face and resolve the cases occurring in a positive direction.
Self-control will be rewarded
A good environment will help her get exercise this virtue. You do not need to set strict rules, but that, for each correct behavior standards and know how to control her, please give praise, cheering and encouraging them to continue to develop. When children receive praise, they will be more motivated and acted more responsibly.
Knows adjust the positive behavior by yourself
Do not complete in character, therefore, the child still think you are always right and do not want to modify the negative behavior. This is when you need to put these laws into action and force the baby to follow instructions, if left deliberately would be punished. Baby discretion can not follow major software his personal hobby anymore, but instead is the right action over standards. After the training, they will know how to control their behavior zinc a voluntarily. Some social skills also need to ensure that your child is capable of self-control, so that when faced with those around them, they will become more docile, more calm and obedient.
Formation of self-control through the daily routine
Dining hours sleep is a good opportunity for you to learn how to discipline the child. You should teach her how self-awareness and responsibility even when no one is watching. If your baby is doing well, you can encourage them with small gifts. It is a virtue to be trained since childhood to adulthood, they will become a more responsible life.
Adjustable self-control by age
- Infants up to five years: this is the age group most cognitive immaturity, he often expressed anger erupts when not getting what you want. You can not punish her with violent acts, please take her to a corner in the penalty instead of angry and rebuked. Just pause and forgiveness when he had calmed down.
- Ages 6-12: This is when they start school, are exposed to many new friends in a new environment. By now your baby gradually understand more about their feelings. You encourage them to always think about the positive things because he was more aware of her feelings. Praise good habits so they can repeat and maintain that behavior.
- Ages 13-17: When perception gradually improved and children also learned how to control the behavior, his behavior more suitable. However, this is the age of rebellion, always said that his deeds do is right, not quite distinguish right and wrong, good and bad. So you still need to manage and monitor and rectify his behavior.